live it up.
Sometimes the earth turns at just the right speed, as it should. dreams are born, ideas are hatched, everyone agrees and lovely comes together. we discover there is life, good life, not to mention gratitude, beyond all the negotiating, and second guessing and hemming and hawing and excuse making and procrastinating and blah blah blah-ing. I swear I just heard the universe exhale!
A few weeks ago, for a fleeting, poignant moment in time, the earth’s usual rotation was suspended. poised like the arm of a turn table over a spinning disk. feeling it's power, knowing that once it lowers, makes contact with the vinyl, the entire room will be at its mercy. It appears that was the day I officially abandoned all my good sense in honor of the greater good ~ and by the greater good I mean, summer. I know, we're half way through... don't even bother trying to reason with me. I won't listen.
Summer can be a lot of things. it can be sprinklers. flowers in window boxes. picnic lunches in vintage wicker baskets, by the lake. dirty feet from wearing flip-flops, all the time! If I'm really lucky, it's watermelon granita. Further down the road, there are fields full of wildflowers. and corn. Absolutely there’s lots of summer left.
I almost feel like I could just stop right there. It seems a fitting summation.
But then, I've never been one to make a long story short.
It happened. today. without warning. I have no reasonable explanation. I can't account for this. All I know is, I never made my bed.
I thought about it. It's part of the routine. takes only a few seconds. I walked away without warning.
This may be the beginning of the end. or! it could be the beginning of the beginning. all in the way you look at it, you know, rose colored glasses, glass half full, la-de-dah. It just suddenly comes over me. in the summer. a summery state of mind, if you will. Making life feel bigger, fuller, richer. Big enough to put an unmade bed in its place. letting me know how silly it is to care so dang much about such things when there is life to be lived.
It's not every day. It's just now. and then. And it feels pretty darn good. I stacked the dishes on the counter. near the sink. like I had plans to wash them. end of story. without another thought, I sorted the whites. game over. I made other plans.
My other plans?
A nap! An hour nap! in my unmade bed!! in the middle of the afternoon!!! A blissful, decadent, uncharacteristic, just-because-I-could nap.
The room was cool and shadowy. the sound of a distant lawn mower lulled me. I drifted in and out while the rest of the house was quiet as a whisper and the world kept spinning past my windows.
I did the drill all winter long. Now I'm all geared up for some good clean
So from now on, there will be days when the house is a mess because, lately I am only in it long enough to stir things up. cause a scene. I just can't be bothered to stick around too long and take care of things. I'm busy summering it up.
Any day now, I'll stop making dinner. Soon, I promise you, I'll start to forget to buy groceries all together. And when I remember? Mostly fruit. or veggies. straight from the garden.
So! my plan is to live it up, Baby! This is my summer. the one I have been waiting for. This one, won't pass me by. I will spend every moment embracing it. appreciating being alive. I have become a tourist in my own town. I have eaten lunch in my gazebo. sat on the porch swing, after nine! pm. I rode my bike to the library, farmer's market, and to the middle of nowhere. I watched the sun rise and set. in the same day. I people-watched at an outdoor concert. Drove mom to Amish country. bought cheese and fresh eggs. we had a sleep over at my sister's house. stayed up late discussing everything, laughing and eating ice cream. I cut my hair and wore long gauzey skirts. Got a tan on my arms, and feet. wore a straw hat and ate blueberries warm from the garden.
Baked early in the morning, when it was cooler. made two banners for a float. and sixties protest signs. Filled a sketchbook. Wrote in my journal. Sat on the deck. Took pictures of loved ones and total strangers.Talked to old friends. and people I've never met before. gave them directions to my favorite café. Sat in the gazebo, alone, when it was cloudy and about to rain. Wrote, loved and lived in those silent and still moments, because they are just as precious as those reckless ones. And, oh, those reckless moments. Get a tattoo, in memory of. Paint your bedroom. the color of the ocean. Do everything you've ever wanted and the things you never thought you could. Be brave. Be strong. Be a unicorn. or a mermaid. This is your summer, this is your story, this is your life. Live it up.
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